Many people
detest political correctness, but there have not been enough credible arguments
made against it. I have given thought to the matter and came up with rational
refutations of some of their central claims. I do so as someone who fully
supports women's rights - both to safety at home and a fulfilling life outside
the home - but recognizes that, in order to regain viability, feminism needs to
change course from political correctness and into a movement that actually
benefits women. And this means: Improving their lives at home and outside the
home - as relating, once again, to their life both inside the home and outside
the home.
Claim: Domestic violence is done by people
with personality disorders.
Answer: In socially liberal cultures, where
abuse against women is against the norm, the people who do it are people who
are in violation of social norms - which, by definition, are possessing of
personality disorders. The problem is, that's not where most abuse against
women occurs; and in much of the world (and many parts of Western countries)
abuse against women is the social norm. Which means that, in the places where
abuse against women is most severe, it is done not by sociopaths, narcissists
or borderlines but by your average Joe, Abdul, Praveem, Igor or Jamaal. And in
those places, it is the men who do not practice abuse against women who are in
violation of the social norm - meaning that, according to the logic of
personality disorders, in much of the world one would have to be a sociopath, a
narcissist or a borderline not to abuse women.
Claim: Sex industry leads men to see women
as sex objects and causes rape.
Answer: The places where rape is the worst
are places that don't have a sex industry. Congo, Afghanistan, Ethiopia and
Bosnia do not have a sex industry, and rapes there far exceed those of
Netherlands or California. Rape pre-exists sex industry by thousands if not
millions of years and are in no way a result of the sex industry.
Claim: Beauty is a patriarchial
institution that destroys women's self-esteem.
Answer: By that standard so is
intelligence. Yet we do not see feminists claiming that school students cannot
get A's because some students get D's, or that them doing so destroys the D
students' self-esteem. As with intelligence, some are more gifted with beauty
than others, and some do more to work to develop their beauty than others. This
is not apatriarchial anything. This is reality.
Claim: Love is a patriarchial racket that
leads women into situations of abuse.
Answer: The worst abuses take place not in
situations based on love, but in situations of either arranged marriages, rape
or false advertising. Afghanistan and rural India have far worse abuses against
women than does Paris or San Francisco, and in Afghanistan and rural India the
marriages are arranged. In rural Ethiopia, the favorite way to get a wife is to
rape a teenage girl - and violence in such matches is also extreme. In places
where partners choose one another, most of the ones who become abusers are the
ones who have put on a false front, misrepresenting themselves to the woman as
nice people and springing the abuse on the woman once she is theirs. In none of
these cases, which comprise the bulk of abuse situations, is love at fault.
Claim: Beauty is only culturally construed
or socially dependent.
Answer: Go to Yosemite Park or listen to
Incan music and tell me that again. As for women's beauty, Professor Judith
Langlois ran a study that showed that a face with particular proportions will
be recognized as beautiful everywhere in the world. And while there are any
number of women who will be seen as beautiful by some and not beautiful by
others, this study proves that, in addition to relative beauty, there is also
absolute beauty that appeals to everyone. And that shows that beauty has a
reality outside of cultural dependency and appeals to something universal in
human beings.
Claim: Masculine perspective is by nature
destructive.
Answer: John Muir, Mohandas Gandhi, Albert
Einstein, Nelson Mandela, Thomas Jefferson, Ben Franklin, Earl Warren, Nikolai
Tesla, Nelson Rockefeller, Henry Ford, Robert Frost and Steven Jobs were all
men. And there were many, many other men who have done highly constructive
things in the world.
Besides
these problems, political correctness has motivated the women who listened to
it to become horrible harpies and to abuse the women who did not buy into
political correctness along with the men who loved these women. It has also
attacked the good qualities that are more natural to women than to men -
qualities such as beauty, warmth, compassion and tenderness - and put them into
a race where they can only be second while denying the place in which they are
first. Some of them really think that beauty is incompatible with intelligence
- they have obviously not known enough Jewish or Russian women, who are by and
large more educated and more intelligent than they are, and who also tend to be
very beautiful. All in all, they destroyed the best feminine qualities in the
women who listened to them and reduced them to being the worst women in the
world.
A
distinction therefore must be drawn between real feminism and political
correctness. One is a noble and rightful cause; the other is a wrongful and
poisonous misdirection. For as long as there are men who believe it their right
or their duty to batter or to oppress women, there is a need for a strong
feminism. But it has to be a feminism based on truthful analysis and one that
actually benefits the women of the world.
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