If you are
employed in an office you have probably experienced Office Politics. Office
Politics can be uncomfortable or downright stressful depending on the magnitude
and involvement of the individuals. Hopefully nepotism is not a factor, because
this makes for the most uncomfortable of all Office Politics.
There are a
few tips that may be useful in overcoming Office Politics and even stop you
from pulling out your annoying coworker's hair.
Make sure
you are not involved in water cooler gossip and that you steer clear of the
office gossip. You know that individual who always has some dirt on someone in
the office. Never pass along second-hand office grapevine gossip. To become
involved in office gossip is dangerous and usually leads to hurt feelings or
even termination, depending on the severity of the situation.
If Office
Politics is causing you stress, and has become unbearable, speak with your
Supervisor and let him or her know you are uncomfortable with the situation.
However, if the discomfort is caused by the bosses' nephew, you may want to
rethink the approach or seek new employment. Always let quitting be your last
resort.
You may want
to spend less time in the break room. Take lunch in your car or outside in the
park.
Know when
you need to seek new employment. But never leave without having done all you
can to remain in your present position. You may even consider taking a short
leave or sabbatical if your company offers this benefit.
If you are
too stressed and feel that the office environment is unbearable you may want to
seek Therapy or the advice of a good Counselor before actually quitting or
resigning your position, or even seek a new department or position within the
company.
If there
appears to be no solution to your problem and you do not feel the need to seek
a new position, department or company, then you should take the direct approach
and speak with the individual that is causing your discomfort. Remember tact is
everything and the tone sets the music.
If your boss
has a superior, then it may be time to go over the head of you immediate
Supervisor and speak with his or her boss. This approach is probably the best
if the individual causing your discomfort is a relative of your immediate
Supervisor, and nepotism is at the root of your problem.
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